Many of us live a life of safety; we search for safe goals, environments, relationships and anything else that doesn’t require much time or work.  
This is a form of taking the easy way out; we don’t want to do anything that will ruffle a feather or rock a boat.  
Needless to say all of the really great things come to pass by way of a little effort or shake up.  
Many women prefer “bad boys” due to that very logic.  
They rub the status quo against the grain and thumb their nose at society.  
This is an easy solution for those that are afraid to do the “shaking up”.  
The best wines are a result of mashing and years of waiting for just the right moment.  
Your success may be dependent on you smashing up something and having a gestation period to obtain the desire results.  
As my grandmother used to say “anything well worth having is well worth waiting for” and “all good things come to those who wait”.  
Take whatever time is necessary to “GET IT RIGHT”.  
The Best Is Yet To Come!  
Stay Blessed!